all this buzz about scott song's articles again.. i remember reading them my freshman year at berkeley.. but here's something that i didn't remember:

"i think a problem with a lot of guys getting led on has to do with the guy's mentality. the guy tends to assume that he really knows the girl well, even though it might have been just a few weeks or months. i think a lot of guys need to understand that it's REALLY hard to get to know a girl...and even when you think you know them, you really don't. i don't think a man every really does."

i actually got it from izzie's site, but i totally agree with this.

this is where i get into trouble. i give guys too much credit...