Carol: hahah SO MEAN
ugh, how does hell function without u, evil!

where's the balance?

between honesty and straight up brutality?
between nice and a pushover?
between real and selfish?
between understanding and overly indulgent?
between availability and having your world revolve around someone/something?
between motivation and nagging?
between encouragement and being someone's crutch?
between acceptance and enabling?
between knowing oneself well and self-importance?
between counting your blessings and taking advantage?
between knowing your faults and justification of bad behavior?
between giving and taking?

if only i could find it...oh, the things i could do. the person i'd be.

one of my favorite pics from the wedding...